Sexcess! 😀 We have actually become much closer in the last little while thanks to your advice.
I am still working really hard on my weight loss, and I take the time to do my makeup and hair every day before he gets home while the little one is napping. As for date night, we have had 2 so far that went amazingly well, and I was shocked when he made the plans to have one every week! He even thinks about what he might want to do during the day at work and then talks to me about it when he gets home. By the time the weekend rolls around, we are both so excited for the date!
He still hasn’t made an appointment for councelling, but like you said I am just going to back off and let him take care of that part. Besides, I know that he hasn’t been looking at porn because he has been spending all his time with me! 😉
Thanks again for the help, we are truely happier and are now on our way to having our relationship back on track. I would still be stuck in that rut if it wasn’t for the awesome advice.