It sounds like you’re not done. If you want another shot at this relationship, I think you should try to connect and ask her out again.
But more importantly is your fear of fighting in any relationship — whether it’s this one or a future one. Fighting is part of any long term relationship and anyone who tells you they’ve never fought, and they’re in a long term relationship — is lying to you! Fighting isn’t a sign of failure. You have to understand that men and women are different and people from different families will have issues, and that’s just for starters! Learning how to fight productively — so that a fight is not the end of the relationship, but just a means to a productive end — is very important.
When you’re in conflict with your partner, you have to understand that holding in your feelings isn’t going to help. you have to be fearless in telling her how you feel and listening to how she feels. The next step is understanding and then compromise and resolution. All of this is harder to do than read about! 😉
Let me know if this helps or not, and how things go — but I think you should give it a shot and ask her out again.
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