AnonymousSome things changed in the last couple of weeks, actually things changed the day after you responded to my last post. My ex emailed me and told me she had broken things off with the other guy and wanted to try to get back together with me! We ended up meeting xmas eve for lunch. Lunch was great, we talked and put everything out on the table and after lunch we kissed, i was shocked that things were starting to go my way. A couple hours later she texted me saying how she is happy that she is still attracted to me and that I kissed her and she even invited me over to see her and her son for on xmas day. Even though I was hesitant going over there because her family was going to be there she told me that she knew it was going to be akward but wanted me to come over anyways and to get the akward part of seeing her family again out of the way, so i went, it actually wasn’t akward at all. Today I wake up to a text message from her telling me that she is sorry but her heart isn’t in it and that she is still in love with the other guy. I wanted to say so much to her about how upset I was about this, mainly for the fact that I completly opened up to her and showed her all my emotions and because I got into arguements with family and friends about the possibility of the 2 of us getting back together. Instead I just told her goodbye and good luck. I just don’t understand how somebody can fall in love with somebody after only dating for 2 months and choose them over somebody you have been with for a year and had discussions about getting married and having kids and living together. I figured this guy was a rebound, I guess I was wrong.
