Thank you i needed that. This is the hardest relationship to get over, i have not seen or spoken to him in about a week and i know that cutting him off cold turkey is the best way to go,but now he’s hanging out with MY friends and asking them about me.I live in a small community we know the same people i feel like a prisoner in my home, he goes to all the places i normally go to! Im trying to get over him but why is he making it so hard if he didnt want a girlfriend to begin with!?