if i were to be with the man that i have the “spark” with then i would be with an alcoholic who has hot and cold behavior. i decided that is not what i want in my life and nothing was reliable with him. it was fun until i thought into the future. what it would be like with kids and trying to raise a family. April is right when she says there has to be balance. i’m 38 now and priorities in life are different than when i was 23. you are going to choose which ever road to take. April knows what she’s talking about and you’re either going to trust her advice or not. knowing myself in my twenties and now and wishing i knew then what i knew now..i would not have even wasted my time. i believe finding the balance between spark and stability is part of it. kyle is spark but doesn’t seem very stable.
[b]“People who chase feelings and leave when the spark goes out don’t provide stable environments or relationships for themselves, any future children or for career and work. Chasing feelings is fun and sexy, but it’s not something you can bank on. Balance is the key here, and I trust you’re figuring this all out so you can eventually have just that.”[/b]
