Hmmm…. maybe I have already mucked it up… When he said he would just tell her not to come because I didn’t want her to. I told him to back the truck up, that wasn’t what I had said, but he really needs to think about this from all angles. I get the feeling he wants me to say no, so I can be the bad guy, or if she comes and something happens he has the excuse of “you said it would be OK.” What do I do? Do I trust him? Do I tell him she can’t come? How do I handle this?