I agree on the relationship first advice. I need to add to this story. This lady on the first time she was over at my house complained of shoulder pain and while doing a massage states “this sort of thing should be done in the bedroom”. I was more than surprised (being an old farm boy), but followed her into the bedroom where she became naked. Not having sex for many years I was a bit overcome by the desire and didn’t think every thing out. When I inquired about a relationship, becoming boyfriend/girlfriend she got very mad a told me she didn’t want any relationships and I was not her boyfriend, I was not even a “together” person to her.
