It sounds like you want a long term, monogamous relationship and this new guy is not Mr. Right, given your criterion for yourself. That’s why I advise you to let him go so you can be open to finding Mr. Right. When you waste your time with the wrong guy, you close yourself off from men who may be much better for you, so let this guy go.
As for your ex-boyfriend, it sounds like you learned a few things about yourself and relationships and hopefully, you will be able to use those lessons in your next relationship to evolve not just yourself, but the relationship.
I don’t think you’re as lost and confused as you are disappointed and sad that you treated someone badly and let him go, and now you wish you hadn’t. 😳 Decide to be a better person and a better girlfriend by knowing yourself better so you can put yourself in situations that work for you and when they don’t, you can do something about them. 🙂 I hope that helps.
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