AnonymousReally sorry about the novel.lol.
I really want to thank you for taking the time to respond to my post – I can see you’re a very popular lady and have a lot of people to write back to… so I really do appreciate your efforts.
Funny how you mentioned blood work – because I not long had a blood test and I can’t remember what they said word for word… but it was something like the hormone in my thyroid was slightly low which effects the balance of things and can make me feel lethargic and so forth (which is what I have been experiencing) . I didn’t think at the time to ask whether that had any bearing on my libido but going on by what you suggested I think I will visit another GP and ask about it and get another blood test done – so thank you for the suggestion.
Ah yes, I didn’t mention my stresses because I feel they are (putting in bluntly) quite pathetic. (sigh) I know there’s no such thing as a mid life crisis at the age of 24yrs but I sure feel like I am riding at the back of one – just without the yeehaa at the end of it.
I feel that everyone and everything is stressful in my mind. To be honest, I fear I am my own worst enemy for example: Starting things and never finishing them – Having big expectations/ideas about what I want to accomplish only to find that their sooo big I can’t get my head around starting them – so I just don’t bother at all. But I know the answer to this problem…. I can’t get my head around these things because my swollen head is in the way – the real question is what can you do about it?
This is not including everyday challenges (which I will spare you from) but I’ll just give you one example which brings me back to what I originally wrote to you about which is: My low libido and not fulfilling my partners needs and desires because moi has just zoned out and left the building. Don’t get me wrong it’s not all doom and gloom……. Urm…… just 70 to 80% of it haha.
I kinda lied initially when I wrote to you…. It hasn’t been 5 months. My problem has been going on for almost a year!!! It’s these past 2 months that has been most difficult especially for my partner. Bless his cotton socks…. The poor guy hasn’t seen any action at all – heaven knows why he is still with me. It’s a big ouch! Factor for both of us.
I’m not expecting to you to answer this question I’m just putting it out there so here I go again.
You understand there is a problem (low libido) and logically you know you have to fix it.
But how do you bounce back to your old sexy self when at present you feel comfortable with the way things are? The only thing that is pleasing me at the moment is the companionship of my partner, good food, good drink and the softness of my bed when I go to sleep – that’s it.
Very sad…….. But unfortunately…….. Very true.
P.s. Do you think it’s time to send the men in with white jackets? haha
Amzi
