Dear what do i do:
You do what all of us have had to do at some time in our past: you move on with your life. Take as much time as you need. Eat as much ice cream as you like. But move forward from this relationship. ➡ Be kind to yourself. But be honest too. This guy is sending very clear signals — his words and actions — that the relationship with you is over. Accept that as gracefully as you can. Give yourself a separation period from him — no calls or texts, no Facebook postings, or ANY other kind of contact. Make plans with your friends and follow-though. Talk to your friends and family and even a counselor if needed. And do something nice just for you every single day. It doesn’t even have to cost anything. It can be putting on your black eyeliner, looking in the mirror and telling yourself how beautiful you really are. And one other thing: you can’t be friends with someone you’ve just broken up with. So really, NO contact right now. The relationship is over, so he isn’t THE ONE. You want to take good care of yourself now so that when THE ONE does appear, you’re ready.
