She is confused, and you’re looking for direction. You’re not going to get more clarity than she’s giving you because her confusion is genuine. She has to go through whatever she’s going through in her own time.
In the meantime, my advice is for you to move on. While she is genuine in any given moment, whether it’s her affection or annoyance, you’re getting the the real her. But what you haven’t quite figured out is that she is no longer a woman who is going to make you happy. She might have been that when the two of you were dating, but people change. Right now you need and want someone more stable and present in your life.
I know you want her to be who she used to be, that’s not going to happen.
Let her go and move forward with YOUR interests at heart. Know what you want in a woman and go for that.
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