[Ask April Masini]

It sounds like you’ve met a nice woman you want to date, but you’re afraid. I can help you with this, but you have to take my advice and execute it! It won’t work otherwise. 😉

First of all, your fear of rejection is understandable. Everyone has it. However, if you value your fear more than a possible relationship you’re never going to have one. Every man who asks a woman out on a date faces fear of rejection. Nobody dies of it. Nobody even gets sick from it. You WILL be rejected at many times in your life, and you need to understand that rejection is a clue that you’ve either asked the wrong woman out, or that you’ve done something that needs an adjustment. If you never get rejected you’re never going to develop as a man who dates women with any kind of success, so understand the dynamics and then face your fear and conquer it. 🙂

Second of all, you should NOT tell her how you feel about her. What you should do is ask her out on a date. That will telegraph your feelings and show her you’re interested and confident enough to take this risk. Women love confidence in men, and by asking her on a date, you’re showing her you have it. Whether or not you feel anxious, behaving confidently is a great start towards gaining organic confidence.

Third, in order to learn about what women want and how to get the one you want, you should download and read the book I’ve written for men just like you called Date Out of Your League. Here’s the link where you can purchase ($14.95), download automatically and read the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. Buy it and read it this weekend. It will help you A LOT.

I hope that helps. Let me know what you think after you read the book, and if you have any more questions, please feel free to let me know what they are. We are all rooting for you, here! 🙂

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