This is very easy — but you don’t seem to WANT to move on, and that’s the problem. You committed yourself for two years to a man who never once bought you dinner, flowers, kissed you or attempted to take you to bed. And still, you gave him four hours of your time a day? 😯 Are you kidding? This was [i]not[/i] a smart dating move on your part. When a man wants to date you, he will. Long distance dating works — if you actually date. But you never did. You basically took yourself off the market and committed yourself to someone who was giving you nothing except internet time and promises that you bought hook, line and sinker. 😕 The problem in this relationship started before you even MET this guy. Allowing yourself to make this kind of commitment is at the root of your real problem.
But, now he’s dumped you and you are having trouble moving on, so let’s deal with this second problem — here’s what you need to do:
First step: Buy Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you can understand HOW to date smart and find a man who is committed to you. Second step: Immediately stop talking to any and all men on the internet who don’t live within ten miles of your home. Period. Cold turkey. Third: If you really want to get over this guy, stop communicating with him. He’s not interested any more. Be grateful that you’re not going to waste any more years of your life on Mr. Wrong. Take this rejection as a gift so that you can now GET OUT THERE!! and meet Mr. Right.
I’m sorry this is difficult for you, but you have to learn the steps to date smart so you don’t find yourself with the wrong guy again!
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