Rejection isn’t just a bummer. It’s a gift, too. Imagine if you wasted years dating or even just liking someone because you thought there was a chance. What a waste of time, huh? You could have been using that year or two to pursue other people or to even just be open to others. So what you need to understand is that if there is no chance for him with you, it’s much kinder for you to be straight forward with him and allow him to be the man that he is, and handle his own feelings and move on in order to find a girlfriend who does want to be with him.
Ripping a band aid off quickly is a lot better than slowly and excruciatingly tearing little by little by little over time.
I hope that helps.
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