[i]Skanky[/i] is one way to put it. Immoral is another. Wrong is a third way. 😯
Are you kidding?? You’re pregnant and you’re not going to tell him until AFTER you have sex with him because you’re that hard up for sex? What you’re contemplating doing is very disrespectful to him. This is a very big deal, especially for a guy who has no kids and with whom you have a casual dating relationship.
My advice is you sit down with him and tell him face to face so he can weather the shock and decide how he feels. Maybe he’ll want to have sex with you afterwards and maybe he won’t, but if you really care about him and not just yourself, give him the opportunity to have sex with you or not have sex with you based on this new development. This is a turning point for both of you. Don’t ignore it and be selfish. 🙁
I hope this helps. Let me know how things go.
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