It really sounds like he’s holding something back. He broke up with you right after your eight month anniversary because of his “career goals” and then he got back together with you and wants to move in with you, but has never said he loves you. 😕 What happened to those career goals that were the alleged reason for his break up with you? I think that before you even CONSIDER moving in with him, you get that issue straightened out. It would be a real shame if you moved in together and then he broke up with you for the same reason as last time, only now, you’ll have invested even more time in the relationship and you’ll have to navigate moving out. Unless, of course, the “career goals” were not the real reason he broke up with you, and instead, they were just an excuse so he didn’t have to tell you what was really going on in his head.
In addition, it’s odd that he’s NEVER said he loves you — and you’re considering moving in with him. Saying those three little words marks a step in the relationship that comes BEFORE moving in together.
So my advice is to wait to move in together. I know you love him and you’re excited at any step that you feel moves the relationship forward, but date smart! Don’t paint yourself into a corner by moving in with someone who doesn’t love you and can’t say it. Slow down, and make sure he’s worth investing in.
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