How was I trying to impose my will on him when he pressured me to be in the relationship and be his friend from the beginning? I may make men I know aren’t good for me good for me anyway because I want to find love that bad, setting myself up for disater, but “imposing”? No…and I don’t agree that it’s all my fault. I am only mad at myself for letting an emotionally unstable man into my life,believing everything he said, and allowing myself to be taken advantage of. & he wasn’t mean…just depressing and very negative.