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4.5 years what now

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    my bf dumped me for somethin dumb after 4.5 years! then he had nerve to get a new girlfriend a WEEK later. and he moved in with her 2 weeks after we broke up! its obvious he been messin with her while we was still together. how can i get past this?.

    i was with him when he had nothing, i took him back sooo many times when he clearly did not deserve it, and he just dumped me for something stupid (because he said i was trying to get in his pockets because i asked for the ten dollars he owed me) nd he moved in with her once he got kicked out of his current house. just one week after dumping me!

    im so sad and heartbroken. i texted him happy new years and his new girlfriend texted me back saying leave her man alone. he keeps putting her on. im frustrated! and hurt!

    what im mad about is that this summer i left him alone for good and he started following me (literally) saying how badly he wants me back and he even apologized to my dad when i wasnt home for all the stuff he did to me in the past but then when i took him back he went and did this crap. very hurtful and disrespectful!!!!

    why is he acting like this???? what should i do now? im extremely hurt!!!!

    #18697

    I’m sorry you’re hurt. 😥 But if you keep trying to get a man who no longer wants you and has moved on in another relationship, you’re going to stay hurt — and that’s no good! 😳

    It’s time for you to stop contacting him and learn from your mistakes. There is no way he broke up with you for something silly or little — instead he used that silly, little event as excuse to break up with you. After four and a half years, he didn’t pick something and decide that was it. Something was brewing for him and whether or not he told you what it was, he’s done.

    I highly recommend you read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you know better if you’re with Mr. RIght or not — this last guy was not him, and you wasted a lot of time with him, which is why you’re so upset now.

    Read the book (you can also buy it on the websites for Barnes & Noble and Amazon), and follow the instructions for finding a man who wants you and is willing to commit to you without wasting time on Mr. Wrongs.

    Let me know how things go, and I hope you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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