I’m sorry you’re hurt. 😥 But if you keep trying to get a man who no longer wants you and has moved on in another relationship, you’re going to stay hurt — and that’s no good! 😳
It’s time for you to stop contacting him and learn from your mistakes. There is no way he broke up with you for something silly or little — instead he used that silly, little event as excuse to break up with you. After four and a half years, he didn’t pick something and decide that was it. Something was brewing for him and whether or not he told you what it was, he’s done.
I highly recommend you read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you know better if you’re with Mr. RIght or not — this last guy was not him, and you wasted a lot of time with him, which is why you’re so upset now.
Read the book (you can also buy it on the websites for Barnes & Noble and Amazon), and follow the instructions for finding a man who wants you and is willing to commit to you without wasting time on Mr. Wrongs.
Let me know how things go, and I hope you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].