So I’m just seeking a little input and advice. There’s a guy I’ve been crushing on for a while. I believe we both may be quite reserved and a bit shy but I know there’s something there. We have some of the same friends and we’ve never hung out one-on-one, only group social settings, but I want to know how I can get to some alone time with this guy without looking desperate.
He has definitely proven to me that he likes me but still I am confused, maybe its just a bit of insecurity. But he has been so sweet! One time after a night of partying we all ended up at our friend’s house and he could tell I was getting sleepy so he put a pillow on his lap and said I could lay there and when I woke up in the morning he was still sitting there with me in his lap! How cute! and then there have been times where he’s complimented me and kissed me on the cheek, he’s even helped me put my coat on before I’ve left.
So recently I went out and he was there and we ended up passionately making out, it was almost like a dance, it was great but now how do I get him to call me or ask me out on a date or just even hang out? I don’t want to be the one to call him, is that me being scared or old-fashioned? But I feel like since most the times we’ve hung out we’ve been drinking and what not so I want to know he likes me outside of that world too. But at the same time I don’t want to be clingy. What should I do? I like him, he likes me, it should be simple shouldn’t it? I guess matters of the heart never are, so any feedback would be much appreciated, thanks!
