I am in a lesbian relationship. My partner left her boyfriend more than 1 year ago, to be with me. He is still would like to be with her, even though she left him for me. For more than a year I have put up with him constantly calling her and constanly texting her with text message as “I miss you, I love you,, etc. She told him a while ago to please stop that all she wants is a friendship with him, but he does not give up. So, i ask her all the time when she gets a text, oh is that him again. Apparently, this always upset her that Im asking who’s texting her. For the last couple of weeks she has turned her phone to vibrating status. This morning I wake up and go to facebook and there is a comment on there from him to her saying ” looking forward to the future with you you told me about. luv u..” I got upset and I asked her what was that about, she acted like she didnt know and she hasnt talked to him. So, I told her out of respect for our relationship, to please delet his coment from her facebook and to delete him as a friend from facebook. (he constanly leaves her little love messages on their which I really dont want to read). I also asked her to please call him and tell him not to do that, there is not future between both of them. But instead she got upset at me and erased both him and me from facebook. Where does that leave me? Does she even care about our relationship? Am I wrong here? Please help
