Good day, I really need some help figuring out if my actions and similar actions are wrong.
Starting 2 weeks from this post I talked to my girlfriend about meeting my co-workers. She has told me time before that don’t involve her when it comes to doing something with my friends or co-workers. So I took the opportunity 2 weeks before to have her join me and 3 co workers for a farewell outing for one of them. She said yes she would love to and joked that it was about time. the whole 2 weeks I’m getting excited because I’m finally following through on a promise I made. We both were. I even got the dinner to be at Slat Grass since she has not been there and later events to be at Main Event (likes it alot). [b]This Wednesday I found out my company is gong to have a farewell lunch next week, but in our office where my girlfriend can’t join[/b]. well fast forward Today and only today at 12:33pm she says she wont be able to make to the dinner at [b]4[/b]. II told her that it is ok I wont go until she gets off and then we can go. She then tells me at last minute that her coworker is going to have a birthday dinner and she will go to that. I asked why she wont be able to make t to the my dinner that we planned for at least a week so I can show her that I will keep a promise, not embarrassed of her, and most of all I love her. She said that she could not make it to the dinner, then later said she didn’t know what to wear, then said it doesn’t matter I’m not coming because wont be able to make it in time. So I told her I will wait, don’t go the bday party after she gets off I”ll just wait for her to come over here then so the both of us can go to Main Event. She stilled said no even when I told here that Main Event is an all night occurrence. I ask if I can then see her today when she gets off work or after the birthday party. “No, do you and I am going to do me” Then she adds that she wont be able to see me tomorrow when I tell I’m getting ready I text her every now and then she says that I am wrong for not waiting….She tells she has something for me. She also asked if I had a drink and I say 2. She replies ” so since your having fun I don’t need to come” I’m thinking where in the world did that come from. So once again still trying to get her to come thinking ok this could be like her last test and try to keep asking her unlike last time she tested me. She then puts up a series of blackberry statuses like “I’m single”, “Seems like I’m Single”, and “Well if one doesn’t do it someone else will”. I”m thinking “I planned all of this for you…what the hell.” later on in tonight we are argue and she says that I should have just come to see her and forgot about what I planned. That I don’t love her and I love her enough. I should have just left (revealing) that she to pack for tomorrow and the birthday party was at 7. She tells me the birthday party time only when we have the argument. I told her I wish she had told me this and she said I should have asked. Once again I did stated 12:33pm – 1:00pm…nothing bout packing or 7pm party
