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are we starting to drift

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    tom87
    Member #21,138

    Dear April

    I’ve been dating this girl for almost three months and there for a while we couldn’t get enough of seeing each other but for the last couple of weeks she seems to be distancing herself from me she barely seems like she wants to talk and she is the best thing that ever happened to me and I dont want to lose her. What do you think I should do?

    #15939
    Badfinger
    Member #21,062

    Did you tell her that?

    3 months is a little soon to declare her the ONE for you.

    You didn’t have an exclusive relationship apparently and she’s got another boyfriend now, I gather from her actions.

    You are out of luck here it appears, but I’d ask her directly IN PERSON, you need chance to read body language.

    #16331
    Anonymous
    Member #382,293

    Yeah we did do something tonight but all she kept talking about was this new guy she worked with and she barely wanted to touch me at all I mean I don’t bring up any females I work with at all but she seems to always talk about him

    #16310

    Sorry, badfinger, but I have to disagree. Three months is the mark when people tend to decide whether or not they want to invest more time into a relationship. It sounds like she’s definitely drifting.

    Make sure you’re showing her your best self. I’ve written a book for men who want to win in dating. It’s called Date Out of Your League and you can purchase it for only $14.95 here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. It downloads automatically and I’m recommending it for you because I think it will help you. If there is a chance for you to reign her in, this book will give you all the tips, tricks and advice on getting your girl.

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    #15757
    Badfinger
    Member #21,062

    3 months into it, I am not sure showing your best self is what I would call it, I would just BE YOURSELF, if that’s not good enough, be gone with them, it wasn’t meant to be.

    There is the one and there is wanting to continue, not exclusive in my mind.

    #16130

    Relationships take work and sometimes being one’s best self is an effort — but well worth the effort. The payoff for trying to do the right thing in as many situations as possible is infinitely better than what anyone gets for being lazy.

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