Before I started dating my boyfriend of one year, he kiss one of his girl friends. He realized this was a big mistake, because she often goes ga ga over any guy who shows her any attention. My boyfriend and I started dating, and she hated me in the beginning because she thought she was going to be with him. He swears that kissing is all they ever did, but she has an altered perception on this. A few months later, she got over it. And learned to deal with the fact that Im with him. BTW they also live together too, and signed the lease before I was even in the picture and couldnt back out of it once I started dating him. So us two got along, and she helped me find a job, which was actually working with her. We were pretty close, and could talk like normal people. This lasted about a month. At work, she would keep bringing it up to me that she kissed him. I never said a word to her, but told my boyfriend its quite irritating when she keeps bringing up pointless things that were in the past such as that. He told her it was unacceptable and that she should probably stop talking about this. Well, thats where everything went downhill. She told him I was lying to him. And that I talk constantly behind her back at work, and that I’m the devil and done her wrong more than anybody else has done anything to her. She’s constantly feeding this to my boyfriend. I’ve tried to work things out with her, but then she says that I’m just lying about everything. It really just makes no sense. Its psycho. My boyfriend was at first supportive, but then lately hes been saying I obviously had to have done something wrong for somebody to hate me that much. Honestly I’ve evaluated everything ive ever done and cant think of anything that would lead to so much hatred. Its put a toll on our relationship, and I just can’t get over the fact that he doesn’t trust me about the situation. I dont even work with the girl anymore and she still is feeding him made up stories! I just dont know what to do. How to make this work. Anything. She is going to be living with him til august, and after that he promises me they will never talk. But since he handles the bills, he said he wanted to make living with her peaceful, but it makes me think that he cant support me. I dont know what to do anymore. Help?
