[Anonymous]

How can I get my gf back? I was in a relationship since 18months, we loved eachother n ready to marry. Her parents n family members used to know me in a different name n were thinking that I m from their caste, bt she knows the truth n was hiding the truth. But when her parents asked me to get engage, that time I told her mother that I m nt from their caste n told that my gf also nt aware of my caste. I took all the blame on my head. Then her mother denied me to proceed. She only told me to do like this, but now she s telling she cant go against their parents decision. I think she still loves me bt now she s nt even talking to me. Plz help me I cant live without that gal, We hadnt even sexual relationship. I thought after marriage I ll establish that relationship. I love her very much n staying 3000km away from her location. They are satisfied with my background n my job bt only thing is caste, they(Parents) r thinking that I betrayed them bt she knows the truth. Wat should I do? plz help me…………..

[April Masini, your AskApril]

What matters is her decision and she’s chosen her family tradition over her love for you. It takes a lot of courage to follow your heart when it conflicts with what your family wants. She’s not ready to leave her family. She may never want to.

I know you’re hurt. In the future it’s much better to be honest up front and for any woman you’re dating to be someone who’s honest in her relationships with you, her friends — and her parents. That she hid your caste from her family from day one spoke to the fact that she was fearful of them and not ready to stand up to them. Sadly, this makes the two of you incompatible.

I’m very sorry you’re hurt. The best thing for you to do is to move on and to find someone with whom you’re compatible as a couple and as merging families.

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