[cassie6]

I dated my ex for about 2 years when we first meet I told him I did not want anything serious I had alot of issues I was trying to deal with he understood we went out twice and after that I would only text and talk on the phone he would ask me out and I would make something up just to not go out, anyway I got back together w/my ex-husband of 3 years and i didnt even tell him i was going to do it he just rode by the house and seen him here, very awful of me. Me and my ex stayed together for about 3 months i realized i could not make it work it was toooo much water under the bridge. I ran into Seth again and we started talking i told him that i was ready now to give a 100% well i did for about 3 months and the i broke up with him I was very wishy washy with him I did this about 3 times and ever time he would miss work and would be very upset. He told me he had never let anyone do this to him, well we got back togerther again and he said last time i was like ok im ready well month later i broke up with him called him 2weeks later he would not talk to me he would not answer my text nothing. I did not blame him but at the same time i was hurt because he had always been there no matter what i let my past mess us up, I now realized i do love him very much was too guarded to see that, now that guard is so down and i have written 2 letters explaining things and were i was in my life and that i did love him very much. After about a month i went to his house he said i do love you i do want you but not right now he said he needed to get past some things? So I pretty much have left him alone for 2 months so i text again and i asked him if we could work things out he said AS OF NOW NO?????? OK so 3 weeks later he starts texting me small talking i will here from him once a week, so he text me today and i just ask him if i could come out to my car and talk to me for a min. he said he couldn’t he was busy helping his brother-law and he had to finish that so who knows. What do you think

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I think that you need to let go of your ex-boyfriend and move on. If he wants to date you, he will, but don’t call him, don’t text him and don’t chase after him any more. Start looking forward in your life, not backwards. You’ve spent a lot of time rekindling old relationships, only to have them fall apart over and over and over. Stop this pattern and start dating smart.

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