“If she has any grievances with that then you can always say, if things between you and your boyfriend dont work out then I may call you”.
By that I think you are trying to convince me to have a little more control with her, rather than just listening to her tell me that shell call me, when and if. I like that idea and I think the rest of your advice is good as well, so I thank you.
I will not approve the transfer, for the good of my store. I will however have some difficulty dealing with the rest of it until I can somehow just shake her from my memory, which is what I need to do.