[tenderkiss]

Dear April plus forum users,

I am approaching my mid 40’s, not had a serious relationship for a while, and not dated for a while either. But just lately I have begun to desire a full on female lead femdom relationship. I have begun to dream about serving the woman both outside and inside the bedroom. This desire is becoming really strong and I am now wishing to truly pamper and spoil a woman. Like giving a woman foot rubs, painting her nails, giving her all over massages, pouring and making her drinks un the evening, I am even wishing to cook lovely romantic evening meals, doing most of all the housework. I am basically now wishing to be a woman’s slave, I know this sounds weird. But this is the way I genuinely feel. I want to find a dominant woman to worship, adore, serve and totally surrender and submit to, I am looking for a woman to completely control me, not just outside the bedroom, but inside it too.

I have something called “Asperger’s Syndrome” This means I cannot pick up on things like body language, facial expressions and can get really lost in social situations. So how can I get to a place that I am both attracting the desired type of women and to know what signals to pick up on too?

These submissive desires are beginning to get bigger and bigger, stronger and stronger; they are beginning to drive me wild. I am beginning to become really passionate with these desires, thinking of how I get start dating a strict woman of my dream of whom I can please.

Please help me with some really good practical advice that could change my life forever and for the better. Oh how I dream of the day I can marry a lovely woman that can control me and of whom I can adore and admire totally. I basically want to be a thoughtful, kind and attentive lover.

I really hope you can help me and I will thank you in advance for any help you may give?

Best wishes.

Tenderkiss

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you have Aspberger’s then you should be clear about that up front when you meet a woman in order to minimize misunderstandings in the relationship. That said, there is someone for everyone (and sometimes more than one person!), so my advice is that you pursue a relationship the same way anyone else would. However, since you don’t want to behave like a typical man who pursues the woman and asks her on dates, you’d probably do well to read BOTH books I’ve written — for men and for women — Date Out of Your League (for men), [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url] and Think & Date Like A Man (for women) [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you understand the tips and tricks for both genders.

Having Asperberger’s, the books will be particularly helpful because things that some people pick up from social cues, are actually spelled out in the book — and I think this clarity will help you.

Let me know what you think of the books and if they help you!

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