[verywise1?]

This goes out to anyone who has been in this type of situation. Please post replies. I met this man online he’s an absolute keeper. The problem is me, I have separation issues. I have met guys online and after meeting them decided that we weren’t a match. i always let them know that i don’t think the friendship, relationship, will work for me…occasionally they disappear without a word. Ok, so I don’t hear from this guy for a few days after consistently talking to him for a few weeks, and i panic. i send him this note about being consistent and how if he had a change of heart to let me know. he was very understanding and said that he wasn’t that type of guy and i know that to be true. that was the first time…it happened again, another note and now i don’t hear from him at all. how do i let him know that i am not a nut and really like him and his style?

[kikibrown22]

How long ago did each of these events occur? If they’ve both been pretty recent then it might be him giving you the brush-off. Life can get in the way sometimes too, so you need to be understanding.

[Ask April Masini]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you.

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