I was in an abusive for 7 months, not physical but my ex called me all kinds of nasty names. I finally got out of it thanks to support of my co worker and we both developed strong feelings for eachother. He never ever gave me a reason to not trust him. He supported me on everything. Last night, he came to my house and we had a few drinks. He started to fall asleep on my couch and his phone rung. It was a girl, it was midnight. I panicked. All I could think was he was just gonna hurt me like my ex and I asked him who she was? It was girl I had no idea who she was calling him at midnight. I might have overreacted and approached him about it the wrong way. Here these 2 were friends for over 13 years, I apologized over and over again, told him I shouldn’t have let my insecurities get the best of me. We have never ever fought. We had a pretty good relationship up until this. Now he won’t even talk to me. He knew going in all the abuse my ex put me through, so why won’t he communicate with me about this? Should I have never asked who she was or was I ok for asking?
We are dating btw
