A quick background:
-We’ve been together for one year (technically one year next week)
-Once we started dating we did move fast, he told me he loved me first only a month in, he’s told me he wants to be with me forever, marry me and that he’s very lucky he found me; I have obviously said the same
-He bought a house in May, I have been staying there pretty much every night since he bought it
-I had my own apartment a half an hour away, right after Christmas we decided that I would move in for real (I was paying a lot of rent for somewhere I never was)
-We were basically living together anyway
-I moved out of my apt, changed my address, license, taxes, everything
-He’s now freaking out that we rushed things
-Says he still loves me but needs some time apart
-Agreeably, he does not have much time to himself and I do (I work earlier hours and get time to be alone before he comes home from work- he works 60+ hours a week)
-I don’t know what I’m supposed to do now
-He says he wants to work on things, but in order to do so he needs time to himself.
Do I just stay with a friend for a while and let this happen or would I be stupid to do that? I love him more than anything and I want this to work out SO BAD because I have loved him since the beginning.
Is it normal for a guy to have his girlfriend MOVE IN and then suddenly freak out? Thank you in advance.
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