[Anonymous]

I’ve known this girl for about 6 months and I brought up the question a while back and she said she wanted to be solely friends. I was stupid and said that was okay with me. She had one boyfriend for a short period and it didn’t last so she called me to tell me she was single the same night. I’ve seen pictures of her exboyfriends and she has only dated below her league, I think this could be because she get some satisfaction by being their prettiest gf?
I gave my all to her during the time I’ve known her, I hold the door for her, I give her my jacket when her’s isn’t enough, I give her company when she asks. I plan on transferring out of my college into a better one after summer and she asked me if I wanted to live with her, and if I could wait so she could come with me? but she still doesn’t want to wait or shows me any affection of any kind but does all this to me, I feel like I’m going crazy since she believes all attractive guys are assholes and I’ve done everything I could to show my true colors, and she still thinks I’m a player even though she’s the only woman I’ve talked to. 🙁

Thanks in advance,
Brad

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t be so available. Nice guys finish last, and you’re finding this out first hand. If you want to date her, you have to act like you want to date her — not like you want to be her best buddy. Read Date Out of Your League and learn what to do and when so you can win this woman over! Here’s the link for the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

Take yourself out of the friend zone, and then ask her out on a date. You’ll find she’s a lot more receptive if you treat YOURSELF like she’d be lucky to have your time of day.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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