Here’s my dilemma: I dated this guy for a year. We broke up because he had some stressful events going on in his life and basically, it was bad timing. It was an amicable break-up, no screaming or fighting. I’ve recently run into him again, and the “reunion” was very good. Since then, we have spent some time together having a few drinks. Not really dates, we just both were at the same place at the same time. I am definitely interested in getting back together and he seems to be interested when we’re there together, we flirt, and we joke around and have a good time together, but the problem is he hasn’t called. Also, on a few occasions that I wasn’t there, he would always ask my friend, who was also there, where I was and if I was coming. We had a conversation one night and I asked him why that was. He said that he still has some things going on that he needs to resolve, but he does see potential for us in the future. I left that night walking on air, because I felt there was still a chance for us. Later, when my curiosity got the best of me, I sent him an e-mail asking if he was seeing someone (which I realize now was a bad idea). His response was “NO, I’m seeing more than one. LOL.” I haven’t been back to the place we had been seeing one another since, as the event I was there for is over. I’m just not sure what to think of his response to my e-mail as it doesn’t jive with the conversation we had. I did not respond back to his e-mail because frankly, I don’t know what to say. I don’t want to look needy or clingy, but I would love to be back together. Help, please!! We had a great relationship before and I know it could be great again. Not sure where to go from here.
