[Anonymous]

Okay, I am about 2/3 the way through my first year of uni and there is a girl in about half of my lectures who i think is attractive. I want to go and talk to her somehow, but I can’t think of how, because everybody has formed friend groups by now and none of my friends know hers (and people don’t really ever talk to each other randomly, even if it is about work). Also I don’t know her name and she isn’t on our course group on facebook and there are over 200 people in our lectures.

Has anybody got any ideas on what I should do in this situation?

[Love2bLoved]

[color=#0040FF]Hi supaman5! I understand the “friends group” issue but if I were you, I would ignore all the “click” stuff, reach down into your realistic sweet self and go talk to the girl. Be honest and tell her how you really feel, ask her to have coffee and pie with you..the worst she will say is no. Don’t let your surroundings control what you do, be yourself. Who knows, she may be dying to talk to you, too. Don’t put off a chance to be happy. Just go for it honey!! God bless and have fun.[/color]

[April Masini, your AskApril]

[b]Love2bloved[/b] has the right idea! Ignore the cliques and just talk to her. The best thing you can talk to her about is the class you’re in because it’s something you already know you have in common. You can invite her to have coffee and get to know her further.

You may want to read Date Out of Your League for more advice. You can get it here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

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