[danielboyle23]

Dear april.

My ex and I of about 5 months got back together last week and recently broke up again it lasted one week. We broke up the first time because of my jealously and us living with her parents. we had a house fire and lost everything we had. So we had to move. Her job transferred her and mine wouldn’t me so still went with her anyways. We were there for aboiut a month when I stated to feel like she wasn’t into me and we started to argue about her guy friends. One of them she couldn’t wait to tel she was mopving back home. We ended up breaking up and I moved back home we talked like maybe twice since the breakup untiol a few weeks ago. We started patching things up and she came and saw me and things were like they were before we moved. I bought her a jane seymour open heaart ring which she still wore and does to this day. And she said the reason she wore it was because she left her heart openforme. Well we started dating again and then I started feeling like she wasn’t fully comitted to us and I ended up telling her a lie to she how she would react and she believed that I did what I said I did. (Which I told her I told her boss months ago that the guy he wanted to get rid of was trying to mess with her but I never said a thing) she got really mad at me. And even more mad tthat I told her I lied to see her reaction and to see if she was fully comitited to us again she ended up breaking up with me over and I told her I was sorry a million timrs over and she said that she was scared that the jealously would come back up and that she couldn’t trust me. We have talked a lilttle since then and she says she still loves but she can do this anymore and that she had hoped I was better than that what I’m trying to figure out is do u think she needs time and that one day we can be togther again. Even though I’m the one who screwed up and. I said something to her today about that part of me thinks she hopes we can be happy togther again and have the futrue life with me she wants with me or should I just be like ok it can’t work. I honeslty feel like we are meant to be even though everytime something bad comes up she walks away from it. When I know we both need someone who can stay through the thick and rough or should I try and see and try to work it out even though at the time she doesn’t want to well atleast tats what she says

Thanks ,daniel

[danielboyle23]

Its been offically two days since the breakup she hasn’t asked me to leave her alone like she did the first time I bought her roses because she was coming to see me and we were going to go out on a date that of course never happneed. She hasn’t repsonded tgo any of my txt today or last night but the feeling I get and I hope I’m not wrong is that the whole reason this happened again was because she was mad. And that she really didn’t want it to end but she did it cause she was mad. I was wandering should I drive the distance just to give her the roses knowing she may not even want them? Am I wrong for feeling that she did this cause she was mad ? And the reason I ask is because she hasn’t asked me to leave her alone or to stop txting her. I want to think she’s holding on to hope and I know she still has my heart she hasn’t the things she did before the whole thing has me confused

[danielboyle23]

Well I just got done talking to her and she made it very clear she wants me to move on and forget about her and that I pused her to the point to where she can’t love me. She doesn’t trust me at all so I guess I got my answer but how should I move on when I feel so strongly for her

[Ask April Masini]

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