[Anonymous]

Hi, I have been happily married for over a year. I went out this weekend for my best friend’s bachelorette party and we had A LOT to drink. I don’t drink that often and cannot recall most of the night. The next morning, my friend told me that I kissed a boy that we were dancing with. I have never felt so bad in my life, but I honestly can say that I don’t remember doing it and that I NEVER would have done that had I not been under the influence. She told me that my husband doesn’t have to know, that it was a drunk mistake and only a kiss. I feel like I am betraying him by not telling, but on the other hand; I don’t want him to overreact and get mad over this. It makes me sick to my stomach that I did this and I feel like I am driving myself crazy over a really stupid mistake. I know my behavior is not acceptable and I am never going to drink like that again, but should I keep quiet or tell him? What should I do??

[Ask April Masini]

Don’t tell him — just start living a healthier life and be mindful of your drinking behavior! Clearly, it gets you in trouble you feel terrible about later. Use the feelings of guilt to become the best wife in the world and do nice things for your husband every day.

I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes.

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