There’s this girl that I’ve adored since the moment I met her. She’s pretty much perfect in my eyes. There are some issues, though. Last night, she broke up with her boyfriend of six years. The moment I heard this, I’ll admit, I was pretty happy. I hadn’t spoken to her in quite some time prior to this morning, but I chalk that up to more or less drifting away from that group of friends. I hadn’t spoken to her much, but I thought about her almost every day. So she started sharing the details and it ended up that both she and her boyfriend had fallen out of love with the other. Now, she moved to Texas to be with her boyfriend. They had essentially planned out their lives together, but the boyfriend started to have feelings for another girl. Because of this falling out, she plans to move back to Arizona, where she lived previously. Obviously, she’s going through quite a bit right now.
For as long ago as I can remember, I’d felt that the two of us shared a bond that was more than friendship, but obviously that couldn’t change because of her boyfriend. And now, I’d really like that relationship to grow… but I don’t want to take advantage of her or anything. I can’t imagine how she feels right now, and I don’t want to take advantage of her confusion. I believe she moved to Texas about six months ago, and she’s already going back. Her life has changed a ton, so I can imagine she’s kind of unstable right now.
It probably sounds a little silly paired with the fact that we don’t speak often, but I think there’s something there between us. I just don’t want to do anything stupid. Please, just give me an idea of what to do. This has definitely added a few weights onto my heart, and I’m sure this will keep me up for a while tonight, if not all night, and I haven’t been able to eat a bite. But also, I don’t think that the relationship would succeed. What should I do?
