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    BrandonH13
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    My name is Brandon. I’m quite good with women at least in the area of I can pick one up. But I’ve never been interested enough in a girl to pursue an actual relationship. I met this girl Brianna, and I won’t lie I fell for her immediately. She said she would like to pursue something serious with me, but she was talking to another guy at the time. She ended things with the other guy soon after. But she started to seem to grow distant. I told her that I wanted something serious. She says she does too. Just not now. I don’t know how to take it. For someone very guarded emotionally like myself my brain is screaming at me to run, but I can’t imagine being with anyone else.

    What do I do? Am I the only person that feels she is making an excuse? Or am I just paranoid and I should keep pursuing?

    #16475

    I think you should do more than talk — you should ask her out on a date! Check out my book, Date Out of Your League, that I wrote for men who want to win with women. You can download it here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. It will help you a lot.

    If you ask her out on a couple of dates and she says no, then it’s time to move on. But if you haven’t taken her out yet — it’s time! 😀

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    BrandonH13
    Member #22,473

    We’ve been on a few dates, then this happened. I don’t know whether to move on or not.

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    It sounds from your post as if she was really into you, then you had a few dates, and now she says she doesn’t want a serious relationship — at this time. Basically I think she lost interest over the course of the dates. And if she’s rejecting you, you should see the gift in rejection. It really saves you a lot of time and heartache to NOT pursue women who aren’t interested. That said, if you think there’s still a shot, there’s not a lot of downside risk in trying a little harder, and giving it another go at winning her over — but make sure you don’t do more of the same.

    Instead, read Date Out of Your League, the book I recommended you read in my last post to you here, that you can purchase at this link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. You’ll get lots of advice, tips and secrets on how to get the girl — and right now you need that book!

    She’ll also find you more attractive if she thinks you’re more independent, and less into her than you actually are. Women like men who are confident and not always the nice guy. If you’re not so available and you don’t lay all your cards on the table, she’s going to think you’re more of a catch than she does now.

    Try the book and let me know how it goes.

    And don’t forget to join me on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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