[AlextheGreat89]

I was going out with this guy for two and a half years and he ended up breaking up with me because we were going to different colleges. However, it’s been six months since we have been broken up and I’m still in love with him. I think about him every day, and i even thinking of him when I’m out dating other guys.

I don’t know if I should just confess my love to him and fear getting rejected (again) or just letting him go even though he’s still on my mind. I still think he is the one for me because I keep thinking of him constantly, and his mom and I are still close and still do things together; I even cry for him atleast once a week, which is ridiculous to be doing 6 months later but I’m still in love with him. What should I do? Please help me.

[js1585]

hey,
I was in the same situation last summer, me and my bf broke up after 2 years and we never properly broke up, we just broke up because he moved away. I understand how you feel as you didnt have a proper break you still love him and you havent had closure of your relationship. What you must understand is that you will always love him, that love will never go away, you’ll just not not be IN love with him. Though you’ll probably disagree at the moment and all the crying and thinking about him shows that you still are in love with him. Have you spoken to him about how you feel? Is there a chance he still feels the same way. After about 6 months my bf moved back to near where I live and we decied to meet up and talk about things, I still loved him, but then I kissed him and it just wasnt the same, the sparks werent there that were always there before. Thats when I realised I was not IN love with him anymore though I would always have a place in my heart for him. Meeting up with him gave me closure so now I can get involved and have full relationships with other guys.

Hope this helps 🙂

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