1) Said he had 5 ex gfs and he allowed all of them to break it off with him rather than him doing the dumping-he’s 26 years old.
2) Gives the silent treatment for days.
3) when I apologise for my wrongdoings (even though I haven’t done anything wrong), he just replies “right”. I usually apologise when he gives the silent treatment because I think i’ve done something.
4) When I know I’m right about something and other people have said Im in the right, he would disagree and say “I don’t like people who are narrow-minded. You are speaking nonsense. Your thoughts are nonsensical. It’s all in your head.”
5) On the first date, he talked about his exes and said he admitted himself to mental health services because of what one of them did to him-that relationship was only 7 months. I thought he was trying to gain my sympathy?
6) He always complains women are fickle and don’t know what they want. He also makes fun of my mixed ethnicity.
7) Made a joke about me needing to lose weight and goes on about how pretty or hot other women are in front of me.
8) When I call him out on something, he says “hey you’ve forgotten stuff about me and I don’t complain.” He’s also said he never liked me in the first place but he still asked me out? and also my friends said it was clear he was showing signs of interest.
9) Whenever I want to leave, he says “I don’t deserve anybody.”
10) When I have made plans to meet with him in the past, I end up waiting 2 hrs for him. He didn’t even apologise
11) He said that he never mentioned he was “the one” when in the past he did.
