The good news is that you know what your problems are, and you’re able to articulate them in your post:
1. You’re too clingy.
2. You read signs wrong.
If you really want to change your life and make things better, then I’d advise you to work on YOURSELF and start with these problems. I hope you’ll buy my book, Think & Date Like A Man, that you can download here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. The book will help you A LOT with reading signs [i]correctly [/i]and ways NOT to be clingy. So read the book and let me know if that helps
In the mean time, understand that you are definitely reading the signs wrong in this case since your guy told you he’s going to be really busy getting ready for university exams and you’re wondering if he’s genuine instead of respecting what he told you. What you’re doing is putting your own needs ahead of his, and ultimately, you’re going to be too high maintenance for most guys unless they feel that you trust them.
This practice of not putting your own needs first is going to be a discipline that you have to practice to master, but I think you can do it. 🙂
On the other hand, if this is his way of blowing you off after two dates, then rather than see this as failure, understand that not everyone you date will be right for you and vice verse, and when one of you knows it’s not a match and acts on that incompatibility appropriately, you’ve dodged a bullet. Guys who waste your time by dating you even though they’re not REALLY interested in you keep you from meeting Mr. Right, so if this guy truly isn’t interested, be glad it didn’t drag on for months or years and that you’re free to look elsewhere.
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