[Anonymous]

Dear April, My ex has a way of coming into my life again after our breakups since we have been on and off for a year. Well we haven’t talked for a month since our breakup but this morning I woke up and had a text from one of my ex boyfriends friends that i don’t know he was like what is up my name is josh. then he told me that my ex boyfriend had gave him my number and told him that he should talk to me. I asked him why my ex thought we should talk and he said because he said he thought you might be single and that we would get along.

Then I said thats weird I have never had an ex boyfriend try to hook me up and he said I think he is trying to hook me up with you because I am trying to hook him up with one of my friends.This hurt me because I am not over my ex.Well anyways this guy sent me a picture of himself and he looked really bad not to be mean or anything but I can’t believe my ex would do this to me? Why is he doing this?

[Anonymous]

Also April this guy my boyfriend gave my number too just told me that him and my ex were talking about me and that he asked to see what i looked like and my ex showed him my Facebook pictures and also my ex told him that he should invite me to go bowling with them tomorrow.

my ex is going to be there with another girl. So what I don’t understand is why my ex would want me to be there too.It’s only been a month since we broke up and we haven’t talked for a month and then all this comes up.What I don’t understand is if my ex boyfriend had moved on why would he want me to be there at all?I know he isn’t being nice and hooking me up because my ex isn’t the nicest person! So please help me understand this!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t spend any more time trying to figure out what’s going on in your ex-boyfriend’s brain. He’s your ex. Let him be part of your past — not your present.

Ignore the text. Ignore the invitation. Ignore the hook up.

Instead, focus on what’s positive, good, healthy and productive in your life. Start looking for Mr. Right!

I hope that helps! Let me know how things go. And please follow me @AskAprilcom (no dot!) on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

[Anonymous]

Dear April, I went to the bowling alley with them which was so stupid, but I wanted to show my ex that I was over it well as soon as I got there he was saying rude things like oh that is conner’s favorite color of panties cause they were showing a little also he kept trying to outdo conner and he was just being really rude. Also he told me and conner to be good since conner was taking me home well anyways while he was taking me home my ex called him and was telling conner how that him and that girl were making out and all and when conner hung up he told me my ex said that I had a big mouth and that he could hear me talking, and then conner told me about how my ex told him that he didn’t like me at all , and that my ex called me a whore. I really couldn’t believe it does my ex really mean all these things or is he just saying it to be mean? but your advice was really good I am done with this guy and I know I can do better! Thanks April!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Re-read my advice, and this time, take it! 😉 You’ll feel a lot better if you stop investing in someone who is no longer a valuable part of your life.

Hope that helps! Let me know how things go — and I hope you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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