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    juni0rmint
    Member #230

    My two girl friends live together and they got a third guy roommate who is new in town. They threw this big party and I met the new roommate there. He seemed pretty cool and we hit it off right away. He asked me for my number as I was leaving and so I gave it to him, thinking he was cute and not really thinking how it would affect my two friends. They don’t seem to care and told me to make my own decision about the guy, but I’ve been on 3 dates with him, and he’s already bought me roses and has tossed in the term “relationship”. I’ve been telling him that I want to move slow and was a bit offended when he kept trying to kiss me on the first date. He’s been wanting to get a little more physical but when I tell him no he agrees to go as slow as I want because he really likes me. The thing is, I don’t think I could ever get physical with him at his house because my two friends are there. That’s uncomfortable for me. I also think it might be affecting my friendship with the girls, going over there to see him and not them. I know he really likes me and I am starting to like him, but I just don’t know if this is too weird of a situation I’m putting myself and my friends into, or I’m just over thinking everything and could end something potentially great for no reason.

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    kikibrown22
    Member #223

    Doesn’t sound to me like you’re really that into this guy and that you’re looking for reasons to end things. That aside, you need to decide whether it’s worth getting involved with this guy. You need to sit down with your friends and ask them how they feel about the situation, because if things don’t work out with this guy, it could become awkward for all of you. On top of that, you need to make sure you’re making as much time for your friends as you are for this new guy. It sucks going from being good friends with someone, then getting cast aside as soon as some guy comes into the picture, to finally having to be there for her when things don’t work out with him and she’s lonely. Don’t take your friends for granted. If you’re serious about this guy, then explain that to them, and figure out a way to make things work.

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    Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you.

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