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Hello,

im in terrible situation.. I was with this girl for over a year and now we broke up recently.. 2 days ago she came for her stuff and bring mine back.. we went for a drink, and then to my place (which she suggested). We had sex, and the next day she came again and slept over..

Today she left and she didn’t log out from her email account. I saw this later, and the first email was from her boyfriend which she has before me.. Of course i checked it.. There were a lot of emails to him.. She wrote to him about her dreams about him and everything.. Lovely massages 🙂

But when we were (these 2 days) together she was talking about good times, and how she recently explained to her friends about how good the sex was with me.. And i know she wasnt here just for sex, we had good time.

Now i am thinking that i should write email to him, and explain him the situation.. I would like to be with her, but after that I dont know anymore. She is wonderful person, she is not hippocratic in life, but in this situation I think she was.

Dont know what to do. I will meet her in a few hours, and i will tell her that i will wrote to him if i decide so. Should i tell him or not?

I knew about him, and i knew she was in a dilemma recently. I know i should not bother with her anymore, but she really is special to me.

Tnx for your oppinions.

Can someone please answer quick, im meeting her in a hour or so.. i dont know what to say to her, its the first time in my life that i dont have idea what to do.. 😳

[April Masini, your AskApril]

DO NOT e-mail her boyfriend. You will only be creating drama and you won’t solve anything. Your issues are not with him. Your issues are with her.

She had [i]ex-sex[/i] with you. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re getting back together. It may have been just sentimental. There’s no reason for you to break up the relationship she has with her boyfriend. If you decide that you want to continue to see her, then you can pursue that relationship knowing she has a boyfriend. You can try and win her over — but if you do, do it with some integrity, not by “being mean.”

That said, my advice is to think it over. Consider the reasons you broke up before you decide to pursue her. You may have just been feeling sentimental, too, and by next week you’ll find that the romantic reunion you had with her was a fleeting moment and not a meaningful catalyst to get back together again.

Regardless of what you do, it’s up to HER to tell him about her liason with you. Not you.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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