[Ngimwa]

Hey… So brief history.. I got an accident 2 years ago. This mishap left me in a wheelchair(Become a paraplegic). During the first year after my accident got a girlfriend and she’s awesome. We have had a few in the road but we always find a way to deal like every other relationship. So I recently joined a sexual rehabilitation thing.. Before jumping into it my doctor asked me to read about to get a rough idea then we would discuss.. I found this site and I forwarded the site to my girlfriend (not sure that was a good idea but figured she should know)…
After she read it…. She was acting about funny so I asked her to tell me what she thinks and she said she felt selfish cause she thinking about herself, at one point she wanted a break, she said that she was okay sacrificing everything else but she never thought she’d have to do the same about kids but she felt bad and wished we could go back to before I feel in love with her, she also talked about us not being able to have sex and is couldn’t be spontaneous (erectile dysfunction) and we won’t be able to do what normal couples do… then she just said that it’s okay… She’s didn’t wanna break and she can’t leave cause is not fair to me… Then she said people find love very few times and she loves me and she’s happy…. (Sorry the conversation isn’t clear she was crying so couldnt hear everything and didn’t want to interrupt)…..
And it’s like she okay now but I don’t think that’s she happy… I love her and I never believed in that if you love her set her free but right now is making a lot of sense…. I want her to be happy and am not so convinced she is our she will be with me…I hate that I can’t do anything to give her what she wants cause it not really in my hands really..I’m really sad and helpless…
I want to break up with her and let her find someone new cause she’s pretty and am sure she’ll find someone…..
I don’t have a specific question.. Don’t know what to… I just tell me what you think….

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