[mae4ever]

I’ve been seeing this 1st guy for 2 weeks.He said he likes me and i know i like him too. We have different race.He’s american I’m Asian. The other or 2nd guy is a Asian same as me even the race.We’re not dating, He didn’t even say he likes me. But his actions really show that he likes me.And I like him too it’s just that he’s 13 years ahead of me.We known each other for 4 mos and go to the same church. Now I’m confuse.I don’t know which guy I’m going to pay attention. I date the 1st guy but he’s arrogant for me.And we have different status in life that discourage me. The 2nd guy He didn’t say he likes me but i know he will soon because of his actions, he is just waiting for the perfect time when he gets a job again.I think! 🙄 .
And is it okay for a girl to date 2 guys at a time?!

I don’t know…..please answer me.. 😕

Thank you..

[Ask April Masini]

I think you’ve written me about this before — next time, please link your questions together, so I can have more information about your history with your issues. 😉

As for your question here, it’s absolutely okay for a man or a woman to date more than one person at a time. In fact, it’s pretty efficient if you’re truly interested in finding Mr. Right. Serial dating can take up a lot of your time (and his). So the answer to your question is yes, you can date two guys at once.

I have to add, though, that ideally, you should decide in a couple of months of dating, whether or not someone is compatible and enjoyable enough for you to continue dating him. There’s a difference between dating to find Mr. Right and cheating. If you date more than one person for months and months and months and years on end, and you’re not upfront about it, you’re misleading them and that’s cheating. But it’s always fair game to date more than one person at a time for the first couple months of a relationship in order to decide if they’re someone worth pursuing.

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