My advice is to stop talking to her because you want a romantic relationship and she doesn’t. You’ve never met. You live in different countries. She’s going to be in college for three more years and you’re going to be out in the world looking to start a new part of your life. All of this incompatibility adds up to a mismatched couple. She’s realized it. You haven’t. You’re going to get hurt over and over again until you realize this isn’t a good relationship for you.
My advice is when you meet someone on an online site, remember that that site is a tool, not a venue on which to conduct a relationship. If you can’t or don’t meet up in real life within about three weeks of meeting online, your relationship is gong to be fraught with challenges at best and an incompatibility disaster at worst. If you were older and more established and had access to plane tickets and hotels, I’d see where this might work because you could fly to meet her weekly, stay at a hotel until you get to know her better so you could stay at her house, etc. But you’re just out of college, and you need to start your own career and if you find someone to date, make sure they’re in the same country you are, the same state, and hopefully, the same fifty mile radius.
I hope that helps — I”m sorry this is painful, but you’re going to get over it (sooner when you stop talking to her because you’re not well matched), and you will move on.
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