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was it the heat of the moment?

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    IwannafeelWEIGHTLESS
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    I’ve known this boy, his name is Corey, for about 5 years. I’m 18 and he’s 20. We’ve always had a thing for each other. Like flirting and such but we never dated or anything. He’s a very shy quiet guy which is the opposite of me. Well I went his roommates party this past saturday and make a long story short….I slept with him. I still in shock that I did that. We both had alcohol in our system but it’s not like we weren’t aware of what was going on. I told him that I never do stuff like that because I don’t. The next morning I said bye and left and he said text me. I left and he texted me later on that evening. I said “we need to hang out again” he said “yeah definitely” he was feeling sick that day so that was a no go. I’m a very straight forward person and I wanted to make sure that he knew that I didn’t do that because I wanted “some”, so I told him how I feel. I said ” I like you. and I don’t mean “hook up buddies”. I like you”. All he said was “I know”. (We were texting back and forth). I don’t know what is going on. I want to know if he’s into me. What do I do?????

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    First of all, you need to buy and read Think & Date Like A Man. It’s a book that will give you all the rules, hints, tips and advice for dating so you can not only know what to do and what to do, but what he means when he says or does (or doesn’t say or do) something. So buy it. It’s only $15.95 and it’s going to save you loads. Here’s the link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

    Second, while you pride yourself on being straight forward, you have to understand that that dynamic won’t serve you in a relationship. I’m not suggesting you lie, but when you start telling him how you feel first — and too soon!! — you take away the opportunity for him to chase you – and believe me, guys love to chase women. It makes them feel good about themselves and the relationship, so you’re going to have back off on being so straight forward.

    And lastly — for now, anyway because I want you to read Think & Date Like A Man before we “talk” again — you can’t always control the relationship. You’re going to have to wait for him to make the next move, so don’t text first — but when he does, you can dial up the tools you have (and will learn about from reading Think & Date Like A Man) to let him know that you’re interested.

    I hope that helps.

    Join me on Facebook. I’d love to have you there. Here’s the link for AskApril.com on Facebook: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

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    IwannafeelWEIGHTLESS
    Member #20,038

    Thanks April! I’m going to give it a shot and see what happens. Hope it works the way I want it to

    #15248

    Great. Let me know what you think of the book!

    And join me on Facebook. Here’s that link: [url][/url].

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