[Anonymous]

I just don’t know what happened. We’ve been friends for almost 20 years. Our friendship became an intimate relationship. A few weeks ago he started changing. He said he was depressed. He no longer talks to me and acts as though he is angry at me and doesn’t want anything to do with me. I am just shocked! He and I have had no communication for the past few weeks. We were very happy as friends and while we were exploring possiblities of a new relationship with one another. I really miss him. I just don’t know what happened. He won’t even take my phone calls. I won’t call him again. Any suggestions that could possibly make me feel a little better.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I think your answer lies in the reason he wanted to go from being a 20 year friend to a lover. That was the first change you noticed in what was a double decade status quo. So if you find out why he decided to pursue you sexually after all that time, you’ll have a better clue as to why he’s not talking to you now.

What you should understand is that this has everything to do with him and nothing to do with you. It’s something that is going on in his world that has nothing to do with you. This acting out is just a symptom of some other problem.

Let me know how things go and what you learn.

And I hope you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter, and on Facebook: [url][/url]

[Anonymous]

Thanks April! I will definately keep following you.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re welcome — and I’m glad you’re following me! Check me out @AskAprilcom on Twitter, and Facebook at: [url][/url]. 😀

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