[Anonymous]

i meet this guy online and we were talking on the phone for a few weeks. He is a few years older then me. But he is very goodlooking and sweet. We finally meet on Saturday and we had a great time. He was completley drawn to me the entire night.He said he felt like i had him on some kind of spell because everytime i got near him, he would close his eyes and seem hypnotized is the best word i guess. He said he expected me to be ugly, and that he thought i was absolutley beautiful and sexy. He said i was perfect. He made promises to me.. and he said that he hadnt felt the way he felt with me in a long time. We involved in petting and stuff, but no sex. He wanted to but i said i wasnt ready. He said hed wait for aslong as it takes. He seemed to be a bit stressed though by our age difference, for various reasons. The next day we spoke and he said that he wanted to see me the upcoming friday but the other week he had to go on vacation and babysit( he has 2 kids). Conversation was great but he made 2 comments thats kind of threw me off, i had told him i was going on a trip and he said that good maybe youd find a boyfriend over there. And he also, a bit later on, asked me what i would do if he disappeared and i didnt know where he was at. The next day, yesterday, was his first day at work. He had to work from 5am to 2. I
called and texted him around 7pm and got no response… i dont know whats going on. is he not interested?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re rushing and pushing — that’s what’s going on! 😮 You’ve only gone on [b]one[/b] date with him! 😯 Regardless of what he said, his behavior is going to determine his interest. If you texted him on his first day of work, yesterday, and he hasn’t texted you back yet, watch and wait — but don’t stop your life.

You should be getting to know this guy — and others — while deciding if he’s someone you want to commit time and energy and emotions to. You’ve only had one date, so keep things in perspective. If you met him online, there’s a good chance he’s meeting other women online, too — and deciding who HE wants to commit to, as well.

I hope that helps — let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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