I have been going out with my boyfriend from november, we went to school together, we we’ve verrrry close friends and he is really in to boxing.
To being with everthing was going great, cuddly nights and him spoiling me then at christmas I spent abot 350 on him thinking he would do the same, but he didn’t he went out and got drunk for like 3 days his mum and dad put him out the house and as he works for his dad he lost his job and had to stay with his sister, It was a living nightmare his sister likes her drink and she didnt help him atall.
He finally after about 4 weeks got back in the house and got his job back and his car, his car was constantly breaking down and he was getting so annoyed at it anyway things went on, I don’t drink so didn’t want him drinking but gave him a chance 3 or 4 times we just ended up arguing I end up crying and he gets chucked out he loses his job and I feel like its my job to get him his life back he accuses me all the time of going with different people and it really annoys me, I am the kind of girl who has more guy friend than I do girls and he knew this I don’t help the matter when we argue as I normally just say aw ok whatever or something like that and laugh which makes him end up comeing to my house only if he’s drunk, to begin with I was okay with this but recently its changed.
A few weeks ago we had an arguement and he was drunk he decided to walk in to my house, again he was staying with his sister as his mum and dad were away the weekend, we had been arguein on the friday and he wouldn’t get out my car I had to get my mum dad my brother and his gf to come and get me, saturday night was the night he came to my house he was drunk and walked in the football had been on and all my neighbours were out drinkin and argueing amoung one another my boyfriend was in the wrong place at the wrong time and 8 boys hit him and he ended up with 2 broken jaws and in hospital, my gran my uncle and aunt were all in hospital aswell and I decided I would go see him although it wasn’t his fault I still was angry at him as he had said he was comeing in and if I didn’t answe my door he would kick it in :s i was there for him again he lost his house and job again and to save him going to his sisters to stay and get worse I went to him mum and dad and pleaded with them to give him one last chance they did but the next weekend he had a few drinks again but he was okay.
I don’t want him to drink atall as that is when trouble starts I have told him if he drinks ever again its finished but I have told him this before and he’s done it he hasn’t drunk in the past 2 weeks and has been working away from home I am all caught up with my family being not well and really can’t think what to do I love him to bits and his family and they also love me and told me to leave him I just can’t tho as I am scared he messes up and ends up dead!!! what shall I do? Its honestly killing me going through this but I think it would kill me even more with worry if I wasn’t with him!
Please help xx
